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25 Apr

I’m happier and more grounded than I have been since my divorce four years ago and quite possibly more content than I have been at any single point in my adult life.  My children are healthy, usually happy, and thriving.  I have a terrific home in the country.  I am debt free other than my car loan (thank you Dave Ramsey).  My graduate program will be complete with just five classes to go.  I have landed the career I wanted at an income I am comfortable in.  And I’ve been spending a lot of time with a certain man who seems to be the ying to my yang.

And I’ve just reached a new high weigh-in at 242.62 pounds.  How did I let this happen?

In 1999, shortly before my marriage, I was at 170 pounds.  In 2012, just before my divorce I was at 242 pounds.  Post divorce, I dropped to a low of 202 and the weight has slowly crept up in the last four years.  The time has come to analyze, reflect and plan.  Most of all, I need to resort to my mother’s guidance and find my motive.  More to come.


Back to school!

7 Oct

After 10 years of marriage and motherhood, I’ve decided to hit the books and get back to school. I also work full time, but my workload has decreased this Fall, which has given me the opportunity to use some vacation time to attend a class in the afternoons. It sure is a strange feeling to be back in the classroom; I find myself one of 80 students enrolled in this class, and I have yet to see one other person wearing heels and pantyhose. Yeesh. I really need to think about changing into flip flops and yoga pants before I get to class!
This is truly going to be a balancing act, but it feels good to challenge my mind. I feel proud that I am facing my fears and leading by example when I tell my oldest son, “college is important.” And now that I’ve aced my first big test, I really believe in myself. Now…can I keep it up? I need some motivation, here.